I have a hair problem.... Looking for solutions.... Ive been feme sine 1999.. Back then a feme guy could watch chick flicks.. I had a fruit fly... I loved Mariah, I loved julia styles... Save the last dance... I CANNOT ever let that go even if its out of style.... I just cant do it... I have films like save the last dance in my blood... Ive kept jobs feminine as hell.,... This was when NYC was swingin.... LOL.... I am balding on top..... I was thinking a asymetrical bob or a pixie.... What do you think????? I have shaved the sides but i was wondering if you thought a pixie would still work... TL;DR/// Do you still think an asymetrical bob can cover a bald patch... It sounds like the end of the line... (Frowns)... ---------- Post added 27th Jul 2014 at 01:27 AM ---------- I feel very bad abou it/// ---------- Post added 27th Jul 2014 at 01:28 AM ---------- Do you still think an asymetrical bob can work???? ---------- Post added 27th Jul 2014 at 01:30 AM ---------- I hate bald spots// ---------- Post added 27th Jul 2014 at 01:40 AM ---------- BTW, i used to be in tune with the gay.. undercut etc... but im more andro now.... I had an obtuse head... I always liked having longer hair.... I used to have an andro pixie cut for 4 months... I KEPT A JOB.. NO ONE NOTICED.. YES I WAS ON BLEEDING EDGE.. ---------- Post added 27th Jul 2014 at 01:41 AM ---------- Do you still think an asymetrical bob can work????
If you think the asymetrical bob or the pixie cut will help cover the balding on top, give it a go. If it's male pattern baldness though, eventually there'll be nothing to make a fringe with. It's up to you whether you want to get used to the idea of shaving it all off (going bald) now or later. As a bald man myself, I wouldn't recommend spending too much time and money on different styles, colours etc for covering it up or denying that hair-loss is happening to you. The sooner you accept it, the better. Just my opinion though. Peace! (*hug*)
Just shave bald. I'm 22, have been bald 3 years. I look better and people love my bald head. They rub it constantly... well you know what I mean. Though I'm also hispanic/black so it does look good on me. I'm not sure if it'll look good on you, but just give it a try. A white guy at my gym had a bald spot and he decided to shave bald and looks ten times better now.
Yes, LOL... It still feels bad tho... I used to have a pixie.... Right now, there is just nothign i can do with this mess.... It is the 2nd worst thing that can happen to a femme gay man.. HORRIBLE..... ---------- Post added 28th Jul 2014 at 11:48 AM ---------- BTW: ivbe had a shaved head for most of my life... I HATE IT... ---------- Post added 28th Jul 2014 at 11:49 AM ---------- Ive been shaved for 3/4ths of my life... But i always felt better walking around downtown with a full blown pixie.... In my eyes etc...
have you looked at wigs then? that way you can have a different style/colour very day It's not uncommon for women to wear wigs, so why not for androgenous / femme guys?
What I really want to know is what does being femme having anything to do with being bald? I am bald, and I am femme. I cant help that I am bald. It is just a physical characteristic that is a part of me. It still doesn't make me any less femme.
I started going bald in 1992 - over twenty years ago. It's been a slow process. I still have most of my hair, but I have two sort of "divots" that come up on either side that have reached the top of my head. I just tell people it means I'm faster than my hair can keep up with. Lex
