okay... lets get started... I am bi. last year when I was 16 I saw a guy at my tutions and had a huge crush on him. I was sort of disgusted as it was d first tym I had seen the gay inside me. I am pretty good at academics n came to know that he is indeed a topper. this was a problem as he saw me as a competitor and we could never become friends. further I am too shy to approach him and his best friend is one of the people I hate. the problem is he used to be with him all the time nd I could never make a move. for the year we just talked once or twice and then parted ways. I was a bit puzzled on seeing the results as both of us had managed to get exactly the same number of marks. I almost forgot him but this year as a fact of co incidence, we are in the same class. he has turned sexier than before and I just cant resist myself. this year we talked a littke but then again I am a decent guy and he moves with those pranksters. he even has a girlfriend but I have no issues. I certailny tried to avoid him but he once shook hands with me n this actually compelled me to kiss my hand. I somehow managed to get his pic in my phone and ended in having a smooch with my phone. I found him on fb but sending a fruend request to someone who shows so much of attitude is ... well, I can't. now, my best friend has become his good friend and all the tym he keeps speaking of him. this kills me inside! during the class I try to talk to him and he always seems to be in a mood to talk to me (as he approaches me always for a hand shake) but I dont talk much as I dont want it to look tacky and overfriendly and well... gay! I feel there is a connection between us... we even share our birthday. we even think alike but as for our orientation...um down on my luck. its not lust as i love every bit of him. I like his gf coz he loves her. I really need some help as all the time I think about him and it has started to affect my marks. I want to have sex with him without telling him bout my orientation. isnt it like I could get him started? I have heard of two straight men having sex and still calling themselves straight. cant he have sex with me and still think of me as straight. I come from a society where gay relationships are not acceptable. I need help! cant tell him directly but want him desperately!
Well, uh, I hate to be blunt, but you can masturbate to him. I think, with things like these, you need a committed relationship. You mention he already has a girlfriend - maybe you can talk to her about this, if possible?
I'll just say that if you like his girlfriend as much as you say, you wouldn't be scheming to get into his pants. Lex
Obviously masturbating isn't going to satisfy your crush. If you can't find a way past the barriers then you have to resign yourself to the reality that you will never have him. One way or the other you need to get out of this unhealthy situation. Make a move on him or take steps to avoid contact with him.
