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Obsessing about looks

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by RahRahLM, Aug 6, 2014.

  1. RahRahLM

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    I'm not talking about other people but yourself. I think I'm completely obsessed with trying look a certain way. Having the perfect hair or smile or skin or body or whatever and I am starting to think it's not healthy of me to do this. If I get a Coldsore I obsess that I look horrible it if I get a spot or if my hair isn't completely right.

    Does anyone else do this?

    I just keep think that if I don't do all this then no one would wanna date me. Now I knows there's a difference between doing stuff to feel good and obsessing too much about the way you look.

    Has anyone got any advice?
     
  2. Yosia

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    Im awful for it, this morning i had to do my hairlike 3 times because it would not go perfect~ and dont get me started on my body, i am a healthy weight but i feel so unbelievably overweight, its bad i know :s
     
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    I have the same, however I have it with some stuff I can't change so it depresses me if I think too much about it. (!) atm I'm obsessed with perfect skin Idk why :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I'm the opposite. I care so little about my looks that my friends and family worry I'll never have a girlfriend. >.< Somehow I just can't seem to make myself care though...