My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for five years. The past year or so we have really started being very open about our wildest sexual desires and fantasies to each other. To be blunt, we both get very turned on by the thought of one of us with another. However up until this point we have been monogamous. I know threesomes can be a Pandora's box and whether or not they are a "good" idea is very polarizing. We have discussed the possibility of one a few times . However, I was wondering if anyone has any experience with being in a relationship and jerking off with another guy or guys as a couple? No touching or kissing. Just jerking off while porn is watched. This idea sounds very hot and appealing to us both and think maybe it could be a way to test the waters of a later threesome by crawling before we walk. If anyone has done this, what is the best advice of who to do it with? Does the same general advice with an actual threesome of doing it with more or less a complete stranger with no emotional ties once so ever apply? Good idea, bad idea? Just looking for advice and couldn't find any on this topic anyone else.
