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Depressed and need help

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Incognito10, Aug 24, 2014.

  1. Incognito10

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    I am very depressed and have been all my life with certain flare up times. I've tried a myriad of antidepressants and nothing seems to get me to lead a "normal" life. In addition, I have OCD fueling certain destructive thought patterns and I am really afraid it is going to ruin my relationship. I've overcome some hurdles in my life (to include some events that made me suicidal several years ago) but I am not sure I'll ever be able to overcome this depression. I feel so hopeless in this. :frowning2:

    Does anybody have depression that's hard to treat? How did you or do you cope?
     
  2. Rosepetal

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    I coped with it from doing my favorite hobbies,driving ,going out ,creating,discovering,and eating food . Watching comedy shows and movies and stand up comedies :slight_smile: u can do it ur life is precious and wonderful don't throw it away I know it feels being sucidal it took me 3 years to get out :slight_smile:
     
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    I know depression can be hard and difficult to treat. On really difficult days I focus on something, anything that keeps me sane like my parents, or my dog or anything that gives me a bit of hope. I cleaned up my diet quite a bit as well, got rid of processed foods, learned how to cook and started buying more fresh fruits and veggies. I also increased my physical activity and started walking out doors more. I confided in friends who listened to me, and who hugged me when I needed someone. I tried a lot of things and found that these worked best for me.

    I know that depression can cause a feeling of isolation and the thought of "who would want to listen to me or who would want to be my friend" but trust me when I say these aren't true. If you don't feel your friends would be willing to listen you can always go to a therapist who will listen.

    EC is a great community as well so you are never alone. If you want you can private message me and I will be happy to listen :slight_smile:.
     
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    You should definitely see a mental health counselor. Friends and family are great supports, but often they don't understand major depression unless they've experienced it themselves. They think of it as being sad for a few days.