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I saw my ex date at my usual gay bar and kissed him on cheek

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Ashanti, Sep 20, 2014.

  1. Ashanti

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    Hey all,

    I got dumped about a week ago from a guy i had been dating for 4 weeks...
    (I got dumped because I let him know that I was starting to get feelings for him)
    I saw him yesterday with his usual female friend at my usual gay bar...
    He then gestured me to kiss him on the cheek which i did...

    Should i do that or just walk away next time....
    Also he txt me about 4 days after dumping me to say sorry if i hurt you and that he was not just ready for a relationship and that i was the most nicest/affectionate/caring guy he had ever dated... and that it was like we were meant to be but the timing was just wrong.. He also txt that maybe in the future when hes ready...He could wooo me all over again ...

    Your thoughts :slight_smile:
    Cheers!
     
    #1 Ashanti, Sep 20, 2014
    Last edited: Sep 20, 2014
  2. Ruby Dragon

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    Sounds like he has some commitment issues, and is trying to keep one foot in the door. He made it clear that he wasn't looking for a relationship, and I don't see that changing anytime soon, if ever. Some people just aren't the commitment type. Be careful about allowing him to get too close to you. But that's just my opinion, I could be completely wrong about it all :slight_smile: