As I've posted about in the past, I'm been questioning my sexuality for about 8 months after developing feelings for my prof/adviser. I think this might be the first "real" crush I've ever had with anyone female or male. I know nothing can happen between us and deep down I don't want anything to happen. My interactions with her are becoming increasingly difficult. I feel like shit for being attracted to her. It makes me severely depressed, so I'm seeing a therapist. My prof knows I'm questioning my sexuality because she is the one I first talked to about it. Just doesn't know it is her that I like. I feel like I need to talk to her about it, so that maybe she can tell me its ok. But I don't want it to make things weird. Thoughts?
You didn't mention what your therapist advised. Telling her can give you closure which can help you move on. So can finding someone new who isn't off limits.
My therapist mentioned me speaking to her but we haven't talked much about it yet. Plus I'm not in a place to find someone else right now. Fighting to figure out my sexuality doesn't make me want to date. I'm really scared not knowing what she might say if I told her how I feel.
