Eveytime I'm with any friend who is a boy, If I don't get accused of f*cking them behind closed doors, they also get accused of being gay. I know both the people who have said it, but I don't know how to go about it?
I agree.. People who say those kinds of things aren't worth your time. They do it because they know it affects you, so act like you don't care and they will soon stop.
Don't ignore them, instead find a flaw of theirs and shift the focus to that. Ignoring them will incite them to become more "aggressive".
That's ridiculous. What about a straight guy with many friends, does he want to do things with all of his female friends? And let's not even talk about bisexuals and pansexual then. It is absolutely ridiculous, those who said it are either very immature or confused about themselves. It can also be both.
It's sad, but a lot of people that I know would assume that if a straight guy hangs out with a gay guy that he must be gay too. I think it's absolutely ridiculous, but I refuse to argue with these people. They're often unable to explain why they've come to that sort of conclusion, so I usually agree to disagree. And just like Quem mentioned, which is a great point; not every straight guy wants to have sex with his female friends. So, I'm not sure why it would be any different.