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Do American girls like Indians?

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  1. ithinkiamgay

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    Guys,
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    I'm a newbie, just registered today. Pardon me if I've posted at the wrong place.

    I'm an Indian and a student living in Boston.
    I think I'm a lesbian, i'm not very sure though.
    I've never been with a girl, ever.

    I do fantasize though.
    Lesbianism, in fact, LGBT on the whole isn't a very regular thing in India and is looked down upon. Coming out of the closet was never an option really, I knew the consequences. So all life, i've just held back what I felt.

    Ever since I've come to Boston, I see BEAUTIFUL American girls around.
    I can't help, but notice them.
    The feeling is no more something I can curb and live with.

    In a bid to put things to rest and be sure of myself, I finally made it to a certain 'femme show' the other day.
    It was comforting to talk to girls who think alike (assuming they do think alike, as they made it to a femme show!)

    I met this American girl there, mesmerizing eyes, great hair, extremely witty to talk to.
    We spoke casually, but I couldn't get myself to ask her for her number (or anything so as to not lose touch of her)
    I wasn't very sure if she's into this though.
    Additionally, I got nervous, I mean, she looked like some goddess or diva of sorts.
    Also, i'm much of a tom boy in my mannerisms.

    After coming home, I did try looking up every single social networking site, meetups, etc for her, so as to have one last thread of contact with her.
    But to no avail.

    Even if I were to get in touch with her, do American girls like Indians?
    Just asking, not getting racist and stuff please.
    Do American girls dislike us?
    I think I do look cute. I've had my share of girls making a pass at me , back in India.
    I really want to talk to her and just be her friend if not more.
     
    #1 ithinkiamgay, Oct 21, 2014
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    That really depends on the girl in question. Personally, I like all kinds of people. As long as they're kind, have a good sense of humor, and are easy to be around, I like them no matter where they're from or what they look like.
     
    #2 CrazyAwkward, Oct 21, 2014
  3. Really

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    Like? Yes. Why not?
     
    #3 Really, Oct 21, 2014
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    hell yea

    cant speak for all girls but i dont think it wouls be a problem c: go get em!
     
    #4 asdfghjk, Oct 21, 2014
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    I can't speak for everyone, however as long as you have a good personality and are sweet, caring, kind and romantic, then yes I would.. The fact someone is Indian wouldn't come into it when making a decision to be with someone.
     
    #5 Blossom85, Oct 22, 2014
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    Where somebody is from geographically, means little to me. It's all about where they are going, that means everything to me.

    So, yes. I like Indians.
     
    #6 Kaiser, Oct 22, 2014
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    There are racists scattered about, but you wouldn't want to be in relationship with those people anyway.

    I think the vast majority wouldn't care at all, and would evaluate you on the basis of your personality only.
     
    #7 Browncoat, Oct 22, 2014
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    Thanks guys!!

    Time to strike a conversation with her in that case! :slight_smile:
     
    #8 ithinkiamgay, Oct 22, 2014
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    Yes of course. I personally prefer someone to be a different race than I am, not that race makes a relationship I just find people of different races more attractive.
     
    #9 mobrien1993, Oct 22, 2014
  10. MissRanger

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    Well I am 'American' by citizenship and I am sure that there are lesbians out there who likes Indians and I am one of those. Personally I don't really care about a person's ethnic background. American is such a vague term and we are composed of different ethnic groups and Indian being one of them. So I doubt there wouldn't be a single one who wouldn't like you.
     
    #10 MissRanger, Oct 24, 2014
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    I personally find Indian girls very attractive :slight_smile: but I find pretty much all girls attractive so then there's that
     
    #11 redandglee, Oct 24, 2014
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    Mission semi-accomplished...!! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    I finally did call her over for coffee. Not a date as such.
    Guess I go slow :/

    A lot can happen over coffee :wink:
     
    #12 ithinkiamgay, Oct 25, 2014
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    Good luck!
     
    #13 OnTheHighway, Oct 25, 2014
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    That is true. Good luck !
     
    #14 jay777, Oct 25, 2014
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    Hey! good luck with that :slight_smile:
     
    #15 girlpower, Oct 25, 2014
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    I was with a girl once 9 yrs ago and and loved it but didnt want to accept the fact i like girls and didnt want to know what my family would think cuz i grew in a well known family and born with a silver spoon in my mouth well i started dating a guy got married had 3 kids 8 years later i have never been so happy with my girlfriend now best decision ive ever made and i dont care what anyone says im happy and enjoying every sec......BTW best sex ever :slight_smile:
     
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    I've always loved Indian women... My first memorable crush was on an Indian girl that was my classmate in kindergarten. :] She was so beautiful and I wanted to marry her, then I lost her. :/

    Haven't seen her since, but my love for Indian ladies is still strong... Unfortunately, I don't think I've ever met one who would (openly) date an AA... Let alone an AA female. :/ Sucks, but whatever. I'll still admire from afar, lol.
     
    #18 LaLaBelle, Oct 25, 2014
  19. Kiyohime

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    If they don't, there's a word for that, and you don't want to associate with those people anyway.
     
    #19 Kiyohime, Oct 25, 2014
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    Indian girls are my thing :3 most of the girls i tend to crush on happen to be Indian. But that's just my preference, I can't speak for everyone but I'm American and in my opinion girls from India or other parts of Asia are the prettiest and most attractive to me.
     
    #20 kidult, Oct 25, 2014
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