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What goes through your head when you avoid eye contact after sex?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Rawrzilla, Oct 29, 2014.

  1. Rawrzilla

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    I'm curious.
     
  2. OGS

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    I'm not sure I understand the question--either that or I just don't do it.
     
  3. Rawrzilla

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    I've come across some people that tend to avoid eye contact after sex. I realize that there can be several reasons for this depending on the person and I wanna hear them all. Guilt? Shame? Embarrassment? Was the sex bad? Afraid of feeling?

    If you do it, why?

    If you don't, has it happened to you? If it has, why do you think that is?
     
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    I wake up and realize I've never even been close to going on a date.
     
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    Dates are overrated
     
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    I feel so bad for her... I kept on missing... and missing... and missing...
     
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    No amount of "lol"s would be able to compel just how much this is making me laugh. Thank you.
     
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    I generally avoid making eye contact when the sex was bad.

    Then again, even when it was good, I can't look them in the eye. Guess it's about (lack of) self-confidence, or maybe it's because of embarrassment. Either way, I rarely make eye contact after sex
     
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    Cant really say. About the only time you will find me not making eye contact after sex is because I am laying with my head on your chest (or something similar) so that eye contact is a physical impossibility. I'm not avoiding eye contact I'm enjoying cuddling.