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Horny and anxious

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Jax12, Oct 30, 2014.

  1. Jax12

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    Whenever I see a guy that looks of attractive, I get instantly horny and fantasize doing sexual things with them. Then I get extremely anxious. After the person leaves, or after a certain time, I'm no longer horny and anxious.

    The feeling is like a drug; once I start it I get hooked and I want more. But after the source of the addiction is gone, I start to calm down. This feeling is getting very annoying. Advice?
     
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    I know what you mean. when you see an attractive guy, calm down and think about the kind of person they might be. Try to keep it unsexual. Think about their hobbies, what their house might look like, etc.
     
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    Great advice there. Yeah I'll try to look at them in more of a "human" way as opposed to a object.

    Thanks!