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Group Therapy

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by WhisperLoom, Oct 31, 2014.

  1. WhisperLoom

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    And so the terror begins. The lead up to my first group session. I'm an introvert, and scared/wary of strangers. And have soooo many problems. Physical handicap. Genderconfused. Bisexual. Chronically miserable. And the group Im going to is not lgbt, but rather more depression based. Why did I sign up?? Oh yeah...to get better...
     
  2. Chip

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    Congratulations on taking the very challenging step of joining the group in the first place. I can imagine how terrifying that must be for you, so give yourself credit for just agreeing to show up! That in itself is a huge first step.

    I think you'll be surprised. A good group, with a skilled clinician running it, can be a wonderful tool in helping shy people overcome shyness, and can also be really helpful in overcoming depression and anxiety.

    Please let us know how it goes!
     
  3. WhisperLoom

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    Thanks Chip :slight_smile:

    It was hard enough to open up to my first therapist. (I just started going to her 2-3 mo ago). I definitely have a lot I could say, based on my conversations with her, but I never know which I should say first and what to maybe hold back on. I have a hard time guaging what people are ready for in a social relationship and that can get prettty awkward. I also feel like I'm always tripping over my own words or not being clear. I try go reexplain, and then I lose my train of thought.

    Here's hoping for the best!