I'm 16 talking to a freshmen in college and really need advice

haha idk what to say because at the moment im currently like that guy just younger and more promiscuous.-hugs u- i really want to help though.

 

It's cool to keep talking to him if you consider him a friend, but I highly recommend against doing anything physical with him until he's able to be honest with himself about his sexuality. You owe it to yourself to find someone who can admit that he wants to be with you.

Also, the age gap may not be a big deal in the long run but it probably doesn't make sense right now if you still have three years of high school left -- that's a pretty big lifestyle difference and there could also be legal issues.

 

The thing about people in college is we've been where you are and we have a little more experience, so we can manipulate you guys. He obviously at least likes your attention. Maybe see what happens if you don't give him attention and try to get him to you. (It's an unfortunate mind game you might want to play) After the silence for awhile and ONLY if he texts/call you about the ignoring would I then say, "Look, I'm a bit concerned with the whole girlfriend situation, and it throws me off. I find you attractive, too, but I want _________________, and if you can give me that, then I want to talk to you, but if you can't then I think it would be better to have some distance." Whatever happens after that should then just be the course of action. He does what you want, or you give space to the situation so your feelings don't get hurt. If you want something more serious, then I wouldn't settle, but if you're okay with a fling, then go for it! He'll be more hot for you if he has to work for you though I know game playing is totes immature or whatever, but it is effective, and it is part of the art of seduction unfortunately.