If things couldn't have gotten any worse for me this week they did. I have been dating this guy for about a month. He seemed genuine, nice, into me, and he was a complete gentleman. Well, Wednesday night he asked me if I wanted to go out with him on Friday night. I said I would love. We agreed to meet at Starbucks and then he would take me to dinner. So I go to Starbucks and I wait...and wait...and wait. He doesn't show up. I call him. He doesn't answer. I text him. He doesn't reply. Something inside of me told me to google his name, so I did. First thing that pops up is his picture, and he is wanted by the police. Here I am sitting in Starbucks, and I am a complete mess. I spent all night crying last night, and woke up crying this morning. I feel like a fool honestly. How could I have been that blind?? UGH
There is No way whatsoever you could have known unless you asked him specifically if he was wanted by the police. And I can not imagine anyone asking that question as a matter of due course in the early days of a relationship. From his perspective, not sure that is information to volunteer either in the early stages of a relationship. Don't beat yourself up over it.
You didn't do anything wrong. (*hug*) it's okay to be sad, But don't beat yourself up too much over this.
