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Too Pushy?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by William, Nov 23, 2014.

  1. William

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    So, I emailed my crush because I fucked up and said something in an asshole type tone. So, that being said, I apologized by email and I hinted at getting his number, he didn't bite instead he sent (paraphrasing because I don't feel like copy and pasting) "No harm done, enjoy your break."

    Would it be too pushy to email him asking for his number?
     
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    Yes, somewhat.

    You need to understand that by doing this, by being the initiator of the conversations, by being the one with the "requests", you are making yourself vulnerable.

    I don't know the details of the situation, but i'd advise giving him some time, letting him make the first contact, next time. So as to not be vulnerable to a rejection.
     
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    Dont force it out of him for sure! Maybe get to know him better then ask for it when the time feels right
     
  4. I am Kakashi

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    I'd wait a bit. If in a few days/ a week or something, you are going to try and talk to him again, I'd keep it super light/ casual. If he seems open to just chit-chatting, I'd still wait a bit. if you're worried about being pushy, offering your number instead?