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Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by MrWheelz, Dec 4, 2014.

  1. MrWheelz

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    If I wanted to give a straight guy a bj, how do I ask him? What exactly should I say?
     
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    You say this: "Hey ______, would you be comfortable with me giving you a bj?"

    Idk how he'll respond tho
    Does he seem like he'd be ok with it?
     
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    Haha, unfortunately, I have a lot of experience in this area XD

    You see, I seem to fall in love with the straight ones, and more often than not all I really really want to do is makeout with them.

    Anyways, I have found that if you think they may be open to it, just be bold and ask! You'd be surprised by how many people agree to it than turn it down.

    For example, there is a cook I work with who I think is very very attractive. I always get kinda twitterpaited around him, and end up giggling and making a fool of myself. Anyways, I started to think that maybe he liked me too. One day I gathered my courage and just told him to him face. I thought he was hot, and wanted to makeout with him. He was both shocked and flattered, and that lead to an exchange of numbers, which lead to some deep conversations and some smutty pictures XD Eventually my last day in that store I got the kiss I was looking for. I've got to admit, it was super magical to me! and he later told me if we ever hung out and got drunk he'd be willing to do a bit more.

    Thats a story still being written XD I'll tell you if it turns out
     
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    Oh, please do keep us updated :grin:
     
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    Does any of this change if we are friends? Like best friends? lol
     
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    You might have to be blunt? Are you at first sure he'll be open to the idea?
     
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    How do I know if he's open to it?
     
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    You'll know. He'll drop hints, or he'll say something that makes you think he us. Or you could try asking him if he thinks guys are hot. Ask him if he like an experience.

    Or just say you're feeling horny and ask then.
    Or when you're "drunk"

    These are just a few suggestions. :slight_smile:
     
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    Do you know him??? Are you good friends??
     
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    I consider him to be my best friend. We live 150 miles apart so we don't see each other that often but we tend to talk a lot on Facebook. He has another friend who he hangs out with regularly. He tends to avoid conversations about homosexuality but sometimes I think he's dropping hints but I'm never sure. He's always been a little perverted but he tells me things he never used to tell me.
     
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    My advice: take risks. Just ask him, be blunt and tell him how you're feeling :slight_smile:
     
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    another question. does he know if you are gay ? if he doesn't , tell him ''i'm gay and I like you" and ask him whether he experienceed same sex actions, and if would like to try or not. I done that, and he was Bisexual. anyway, good luck.
     
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    Yes, he knows that I'm bi and that I like him.
     
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    Okay so what kind of hints, hun? Like obvious? You have to try to analyse and don't take stuff for more than its worth, but pick up on things if he's trying to tell you something. Also, is he ok with bj anyways?
     
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    I've just asked!
    They just said no I'm straight!
    Or I'm married! I said so am I!
    Lol!
    Only tried with close friends though!

    ---------- Post added 8th Dec 2014 at 08:28 PM ----------

    I'm still trying!
    I flirt with this "straight" guy at work every chance I get.
    I really think he kinda likes it!
    He flirts with me as well.
     
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    he wouldn't be surprised if you made a move.