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Are they hints?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by MrWheelz, Dec 18, 2014.

  1. MrWheelz

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    I can't figure out if my best friend is dropping hints or just perverted... We text and talk via Facebook and he sends me photos and links that are sexual in nature. I'm not talking about gay porn or anything like that though. For example, he just sent me a link to a funny video that talks about giving hand jobs to homeless guys. He knows I'm bisexual AND that I have a crush on him. I don't know what to think anymore. What are your thoughts?
     
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    Sounds like teasing to me but i could be wrong. As funny payback i'd start doing the same
     
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    Teasing in what way?
     
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    Like brotherly teasing i guess is the word
     
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    Well, sometimes it's best to trust your intuition. If you are REALLY suspicious he is hinting he likes you, I'd straight up ask him if he's interested... Only not in public. Never just randomly ask somebody that in public. They'll deny it everytime, at least from my few years of life I've discovered that... However, what do YOU think it is? If it doesn't feel like just teasing, their could be a chance he likes you... who knows about life? Everything is uncertain in this life. ^_^
     
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    I guess I should have mentioned that he is straight or at least says he is. Does that change any opinions? lol
     
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    I still think if you think he might have a crush on him, it's better to ask. I mean, you don't have a strong relationship if you can't at least ask I think... My friends know if I find them attractive or not, though I only am interested in dating one... <3 Well, I hope you figure it out. He seems like a fairly close friend, so who knows? He will tell you what he decides too and you shouldn't force it out of him, though if you're close there should be no issue asking.
     
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    ask him but in the way he wouldnt recognize your interest in him, just no serious conversation for a while

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    even though he knows your interest, just dont show him you are dependent on him