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First Christmas Alone

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Genesman71, Dec 25, 2014.

  1. Genesman71

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    Sitting here soaking up the loneliness! Wish that I had somewhere to go! Sense another melt down coming.
     
  2. IWICCO

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    I'm sorry to hear you are alone. Do you have any friends or family nearby. Just remember there is a difference between being alone and being lonely. I hope this passes soon for you.

    Just breath.
     
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    Hey Gene,

    You're not alone, you're here with us, if not in body, definitely in spirit!

    Happy Holidays!
     
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    I know it`s not easy this time of year Gean but as greatwhale said your not alone on EC bet there's a ton of people in a similar situation reading this your not alone Gene. x
     
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    We are here for you.
     
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    Awe, you will be ok sweetie :slight_smile:
     
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    Well I made it through the day! Believe me it was really difficult. My friends were busy with their families and my family did not want me!! BTW-Alone and lonely! Thanks for the encouragement!!
     
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    So glad to hear you got through it. Remember we are here if you need us!
     
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    (*hug*)

    I know the feeling. You are not alone here. I've spent a lot of birthdays and Christmas on my own, the first time I felt awful, the second time I decided to take action, look for a recipe, cook for myself and watch one of my favourite films.

    Life changes... This year I wasn't on my own, never thought it would happen, but it did.
    My best wishes to you! (*hug*)
     
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    Keep it strong buddy. I spend every christmas, birthday, fourth of july .... all alone. It is really hard but you are not alone. I really know how you feel because I am really lonely and badly need some friends or someone special. Let me hug you. (*hug*)