So.....Im 14, I've always been attracted to girls sexually and in very other way, but since 2 months ago i've had doubts about my sexuality. I watched gay porn the other day..... I got hard, i then watchd straight porn about 10 minutes later, i did not get an erection. I have masturbated to gay porn, but have never done it and thiught of a gay experience, i never get hard over mens bodies, like abs and shit. I Have no romantic or emotional feelings towards men, but do for girls. Ive thought about me and a girl during a sexual experience....... and thought i would be awkward and nervous. Im really worried as, one way to see if ur gay is that ur ring inger is shrter than ur indx finger......on my hands it is. I really wont want to be gay. I wanna live the rest of my life with a girl. Am i gay ???? What do u think ????:bang: This causes me to not enjoy fun things i enjoy doing and i cant sleep at night worrying about this. Help i need feedback.
Firstly: What type of porn excites you has no affect on sexual orientation. Secondly: That ring/index finger thing is a load of BS I don't think you're gay at all. I just think you're over-thinking your likeness to gay porn. You're most likely getting aroused by the sexual acts seen in porn, not who's performing them. You said you have no attraction whatsoever to men and their appearance and that you've always been attracted to girls in every way so basically you're not even remotely gay. Don't worry.
The height of your fingers is total shit, ignore it. As you will see on this site if you look, gay men will be attracted to lesbian porn, lesbians to straight, straight to gay/lesbian. It really doesn't seem to have an impact on what porn you like surprisingly. Whatever your sexuality, your porn preferences don't come into it, completely different genre. Try not to force yourself into a label or worry about it, the vast majority of people, straight or otherwise go through a patch of experimenting in person or with porn things that they long term have no interest in... Like straight people liking gay porn or making out with the same gender, especially at our sort of age. I'm sorry if I make no sense, I'm tired!
Um. Dude. You've now posted this exact same question three times since 12/26 (everything you post shows up on your profile) and you've gotten basically the same answers each and every time. If you're still feeling anxious about the whole gay thing, it might be helpful to explain a bit more about what is bothering you so that people have more information to work with. But simply repeating the same scenario and concern over and over again has already pretty thoroughly been shown to not get you any kind of different answer. Todd
