Sometimes I blame myself for Mum outing me to my Dad for not telling him sooner, telling my Mum in the first place,, and for saying I wish he knew everytime the subject was brought up. Do you ever blame yourself for things you can't change?
Yes, all the time. I think what you're going through is normal. It's really your Mom's fault for outing you though.
I try not to live life with regrets I feel life is too short for always saying why didn't I do this? Why didn't I do that? But I think no matter how hard it is its best to not live in the past but to just look forward ino the future.
Oh I always do. I'm perpetually hard on myself. It's just the way I am. I eventually let things go but it takes time.
Regrets suck, but blaming myself is something I do constantly. It's a bad look to blame someone else so finding alternatives or being responsible enough to fix it is important to me. It's hard work, but I find it makes up for the problem with time. Hope you recover from this (*hug*)
