I asked him if he is interested in me and now he is not talking to me

Hi,

This is a friend that i have talked about in my last thread. We are very close. so close that people think we are dating. both of us are closeted and we do a lot of flirting, wrestling, cuddling and we both have felt each other's boner as well.
he is a very good looking, straight acting playboy. he changes his girlfriend every 2 weeks and is very popular among girls. but whenever he has to go outside for dinner or movies, he always asks me and this has been going on for past 1 year.

the problem started when i developed feelings for him, knowing that he doesn't want any emotional connect with a guy and almost he would prefer sexual relationship.

he keeps calling me gay, and says why you shy in coming out , you are so obviously gay, even though i never told him that I am gay.

3 days back, i was upset with him and he was trying to convince me by cuddling, and hugging and i don't know, why my tongue slipped and i asked him if he is interest in me. his reaction was beyond my expectation. he started shouting at me... he told, " dude, I am just your friend, i don't want your friendship if you think this way"...then he started saying don't touch me ever..."we will talk and do stuff but only with a distance...we would not touch each other"

and from then on he stopped talking to me

Its been three days and i am heartbroken, shocked and depressed. Why he acted this way...what should i do now. i want our old friendship to be back. i said sorry to him many times and tried to explain that i didn't mean to say those things and that he need not be insecure. please help

---------- Post added 18th Jan 2015 at 05:57 PM ----------

someone give me some advice. I miss him terribly. should i wait or let it go?