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Disappointed In My BFF

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by IWICCO, Jan 18, 2015.

  1. IWICCO

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    I posted about six weeks ago that I came out to my BFF(?) that I am bisexual. Since that time, we have not had one conversation about my revelation and have only seen one another once. I will say we live about 35 minutes away from one another and when we saw one another we were with a couple of other mutual friends that have no idea about my orientation. I just have to say that I am very frustrated with his lack of communication. He is a very busy person who manages a food truck and is starting a restaurant, but I am busy as well with a sick wife, going to school full time and a full time job. But I feel like I make time for our friendship and he does not. I have told him how I feel but he still is nonchalant. Am I being a baby that needs to chill out? I am very disappointed in his attitude and am really feeling like our friendship is not genuine at this point.

    I know I am the type of friend that is there at anytime but he is not. I don't feel my coming out to him as any impact on how he is because he has always been this way, but I had hoped that me revealing myself so much would warrant him wanting to make sure I am OK. I cried and revealed to him that night that I have had suicidal thoughts, but it has not warranted not ONE follow up call.

    Please tell me if I am being a drama king!