How exactly should I come out to a friend

Text them.

 

U can start off with a question " do u hate gays ? " Or u take a couple for example and u both can discuss about them. If things seem fine u can start asking questions like " what if u're gay? " " What if ur fren's gay" ? And then maybe u can come out finally

 

I always asked what their opinion on homosexuality was, I mean, no point in coming out to friends who will be hostile. Then, if they were accepting, Id come out to them, and tell them thst they should feel free to ask any questions theyd like, as long as they wernt suoer rude. Then give them time. So that they can think it over. Its really hard, but you can do it! best of luck (*hug*)

 

I agree, you should try and find out how they feel about gays in general first and gage your approach accordingly. If they are a close friend they may feel a sense of having been deceived by you for your not having come out to them earlier. If this is a possibility then definitely do it in person otherwise they might really feel betrayed. Assume it will go well but be prepared to defend yourself just in case. But don't be defensive either. Make it a positive event, which is what it is. Coming out means sharing an important side of yourself with people you care about and most of the time it brings friends closer together. So don't start off by saying, "I hope you don't hate me for this..." Instead make it something like, "I've realy grown to trust you and I think it's time I shared something about myself with you..."

 

Ya that's a good idea see where there stance on gay rights is and if its good then kick down the closet door!

 

yaoi. Then she'll beg you to be gay.

 

Uhm what?