Hi everyone, Im a mom and since our 19 yr old son came out a yr a go I have been attending a PFLAG group once a month about an hr from our home. Sometimes I cant go because of weather but I try to go whenever I can. I go but I dont know what to do. It would be nice if I had some ideas on how to be at least a little more active. I feel useless just being there. If anyone has any ideas to share that would be great. Thank You
Hi there! I think it's great that you've been going to the PFLAG group despite the distance, and I commend you for doing so. Does the PFLAG group participate in any events, like Pride Parades/festivals? If so, maybe you could join them in that. Also, have you asked the leaders of the group about being more involved? They might be able to give you some direction.
Hi Gallatin, Im sorry that Im just now getting back on here. I appreciate you taking the time to message. Yes I thought about asking how I could be more involved but then felt kind of embarrassed as in maybe they will think I should just know. I guess I could just say something like, is there anything I can do or let me know how I can be of help. Thank you
Nah, I don't think they would have that kind of reaction. I know that if I were running the group, I certainly wouldn't think that if a member came up and asked me! Above all, I'd be happy and grateful that somebody was willing to offer their time and assistance. So yeah, I would definitely ask them! I think phrasing it along the lines of asking if there's anything more you can do to help, and expressing a desire to get more involved, is good.
