I guess this has happened to a lot of people and was hoping to get some advice or feedback. I've fallen for my best friend. (Both girls) we're 19. I'm sure a lot of people would say that it's a phase. But the way I feel for her, is unlike anyone else. I have liked her since my sophomore year in high school, and I keep falling for her every day. I haven't told her about my feelings for her, but I plan to sometime this year. I know that she loves me, not in the way that I love her, but I have hope that she can. I am curious to know if any of you guys have gone through falling for your best friend and being successful in doing so? I feel like a part of her has questioned whether I like her or not. And I know that she's not entirely sure about her sexuality, but she recently got a boyfriend. My best friend goes to school up north, where I'm planning to transfer, but we're 1,200 miles away. I feel horrible because I feel like even though she has a boyfriend now, I feel like I still have a chance with her. Of course, I would not tell her my feelings while she's with him, because I don't want to ruin anything. All I want for her is to be happy and I have put her before myself. I'm honestly willing to wait for her because she means so much to me, is this a bad thing to do? I'm kind of all over the place with this post and I would greatly appreciate it if someone would talk to me in private about this and I can tell anyone more details about my situation. thank you so much for reading!
