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only friends are girls

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Mattx, Mar 13, 2015.

  1. Mattx

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    Okay so my only friends are a bunch of girls and I'm not really sure even how that happened. I mean yeah I talk to other guys every now and then but I literally sit with all girls at lunch. I'm honestly surprised no one calls me gay. I just feel awkward around other guys. Not really sure if all girl friends Are a bad thing. Opinions?
     
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    I don't see why it'd be a bad thing. Up until this year, I never had an offline friend that was a guy. They all seemed like insensitive pricks, LOL.

    I think it depends more on how the people at your school are. Here, the guys are really damn sexist, and I don't really want to have anything to do with that, you know? Maybe it's similar for you.
     
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    Exactly all the guys at my school are rude and obnoxious. Or they think just because they play sports and are popular that they rule the school.
     
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    I had the same problem when I was in high school. It was horrible because people would call me gay behind my back and even my parents would always be telling me i should have more guy friends. I think that it depends on where you are, I changed schools after that and I made more guy friends. To this day, my best friend is actually a guy but i still have a lot of girl friends. I also guess that once you get to know more gay guys you can become friends as you might have more in common. :grin:
     
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    When I went to regular school most of my friends were girls.
     
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    Why would this be a bad thing? Maybe you just get along with girls better. I also tend to make friendships mostly with women. I have some troubles making friends with men, too, but I think that's mostly because I try to figure out if they're gay, too. Straight guys are weird.
     
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    Why is it bad, I've had a majority of female friends at school as well. I had to force myself to make guy friends.
     
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    It's not bad but I assume you eventually want to find a boyfriend so... it's going to be hard to do that if you never talk to them.