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Music Triggers

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by waitwhat, Apr 6, 2015.

  1. waitwhat

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    There are a lot of songs that I had listened to during some bad times in my life, and now every time I hear them, they trigger those bad memories and make me feel awful. Is there anyway to work through that so I don't get depressed when I hear those songs?
     
  2. MyBloodIsBlack

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    I fell ya. Whenever i listen to "Flavor" or "space dogs" by Tori Amos it reminds of my lost childhood:'(
    I personally like listening to those songs that make me sad. They remind me of how strong those bad times made me, and how not to take what i have now for granted because it could be worse... But if you REALLY don't wanna remember id say just don listen to em'
     
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    Maybe don't listen to those songs until you've fully moved on.
     
  4. Hyliana

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    Though i've never had any memories triggered from song i've definitely had moods triggered.
     
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    I say don't listen to them if they make you feel a certain way or bring up unhappy memories. "Bullet" by Hollywood Undead brings me back to my ideation days shortly before my hospitalizations to the point where I can vividly recall what the unit looked and smelt like.
     
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    Bob Seger's "Night Moves."

    It's like he's mocking me, rubbing it in my face that he and so many others had so many experiences as a young person and he's masturbatorily reflecting on it in such a way that says "Look how much better I am than you."

    Though I do like "Hollywood Nights."
     
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    Heh, I didn't get that superior tone. I just see the song as a sort of teenage fantasy from a bygone era, and leave it at that. I love all his music <3

    I got a little bit of a trigger from Avril Lavigne's "Let Go" album though, because it was the one I was listening to when I got into my car accident that shattered my sweet '08 coupe. I still listen to the cd though; time has healed the worst lingering pains. That and getting a newer (still not as awesome) car. *sighs*
     
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    I can't handle Victim by Avenged Sevenfold. Listening to it just puts me in a bad place.