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I just need a hug

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by magicalkat, Apr 20, 2015.

  1. magicalkat

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    So I hope this is the right place to put this.
    I just feel like shit my depression is just not good right now and I want to come out to everyone but that's complicated. I am almost positive I don't like guys at all except aesthetically. I also have no clue how to flirt with girls or figure out if other girls like girls and I have no clue how to do anything dealing with liking girls.
    But that's not even whats bothering me I just feel like shit and like I am a side note to all my friends. I just don't know what to do and I kinda just want to talk to someone about all the negative thoughts in my head.
    Sorry to just vomit here but I just had to let a tiny bit out where someone might listen.
    Have a beautiful day
     
  2. OfTheKokiri

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    A fellow person who needs a hug!

    (*hug*)

    You can get through this! Some days just have to be labelled "please be over". Everyone just has to remember that somewhere in the future there is a really good day to be discovered.
     
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    oooh, im really sorry to hear that *cuddles you, his hand stroking you a little to comfort*
     
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    Are you in school? Maybe there's a councilor you could talk to? Otherwise, family? I also had a down-day the latter part of today (social gender dysphoria). Feel free to wall me if you want to vent! <3 Stay safe (*hug*)
     
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    (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*)
     
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    i'll give you hug as much as you want

    (&&&)(&&&)(&&&)(&&&)(&&&)(&&&)

    hope you feel better soon
    arff
     
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    (*hug*)(*hug*) Hang in there, love! I wish I could give you a big hug in person!
    As for the coming out/friend stuff, I would suggest maybe just coming out to one person you're a bit closer to if you feel comfortable and you know they would be supportive. Perhaps if you share something like this with a friend, you'll feel more close to them and it will hopefully take a bit of the stress away of keeping it bottled up. Again, only if you feel comfortable with it. Best of luck to you and here's more hugs!!(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)
     
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    (*hug*) We'll get through this together. Message me if you really need to talk. I'm here for you.
    Best wishes,
    Bernie
    P.S. Take a hug for the road. (*hug*)
     
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    Stay strong honey (*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*) if you feel out of place, you can always come here and talk to anybody. I'm very sure they'll love to know you :slight_smile:
     
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    I'll give you a giant hug. (*hug*)(*hug*)(&&&)(*hug*)
     
  12. Mirko

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    Hi there! Venting and letting things out, this is what EC is for too. I am glad you wrote everything that was on your mind out. Whenever you need to vent or want to write stuff out, feel free to do so.

    (*hug*)(*hug*)
     
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    I was in a similar situation not too long ago (*hug*) (&&&)
    it gets better (*hug*)
     
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    (*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(&&&)


    A lot of hugs for the coming better days!
     
  15. magicalkat

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    So I have been busy and I get on here and all of these replies made me smile soo much thank you for all the hugs and support you all are so lovely and I hope you all have lovely days(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(&&&)(*hug*)(&&&)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)
     
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    hope things are going a bit better for you today :slight_smile:. it really does get better :slight_smile:.