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When was your first Blowjob?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by DanielSmith, Apr 26, 2015.

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  1. DanielSmith

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    Hi,

    I'm 16 and I'm wondering whether or not I'm "behind"
    I've never ever had any sort of experience with another guy....ever

    When did you first give/take your first bj??

    Is 16 too young? Haha
     
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    It was when I was 23 I did one for the first time , hated it never again don't get how people enjoy that , but it's not for me to enjoy. :confused:
     
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    ehm... *cough* let's just say I should have realized long before I did that I wasn't straight.
     
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    Never had one :frowning2: :frowning2: not likely to either :frowning2: :frowning2: :frowning2:

    My partner isn't ever going to be comfortable with it :frowning2: :frowning2: :frowning2:
     
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    I'm 19. I had my first blowjob experience at 18. The first time I was only the receiving partner. The second time I did both ways. It was good and interesting, but definitely not exceptional.

    Funny thing is, I didn't like it that much. But now I had the chance to perform it, and I found out I actually love it!

    You are not far behind on my opinion. Everybody has its time. I had my first kiss at 16. And only recently I had my first set of penetrative sexual experiences. So yeah, doesn't matter when you do it. As long as you it consciously, safely and enjoy it of course :slight_smile:
     
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    First, I will answer this thread question.

    No, I have not BJ'ed or was BJ'ed by someone. And I dont see an chance of me getting or giving it anytime soon. If I were to do it, I would like to do it to my trusted partner.
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    Now, to answer your questions.

    Youre definitely not behind. There are lots of people, younger than you, you have experimented on this. But IMO, 16 is too young. IDK, maybe I a just a bit protective but I really think that 16 year olds, and younger, shouldnt be "playing" with this kind of things.

    But who am I to stop you if you really want to :slight_smile: Be sure to do it with the right person, ok?
     
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    No, you're not at all behind. I'd imagine most gay people take longer to lose their virginity as there's the whole coming out deal, then the fact that less than 5% of people are gay males and that less the 5% of them are within your age range, furthermore only half the people in that age range will have come out.

    My first was at 18, I was brutally drunk and it was with a girl.
     
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    I have neither given, nor received a blow job yet, and I'm 44 1/4 years old.

    Perhaps my age, plus lack of experience in this area, biases me; however, I would not say that one is behind at 16 if one has not had a blow job.

    It would be possible to have statistics, of course ("Average Age of First Blow Job") or a table showing ages, and number of people who've had a blow job. But on an individual level, all things sexual vary, and wildly different things can be "normal." Particularly with something like sexual activity with another person.
     
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    I was 19.

    You aren't behind, and don't worry about it. Life isn't a competition to see who experiments with sexuality first.

    Relax and take your time.
     
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    I gave my first blowjob when I was 16 and I actually liked it, which surprised me since everyone else around me seemed to think it was gross and "ew no".

    I don't think you're behind or that anyone is. Your sex life begins when you feel comfortable enough to start it and have someone you're comfortable being with. Like Chiroptera said, life isn't a competition. Just take things at your own pace.
     
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    Oral at age 50, so, don't feel like you need to rush it.
    First vaginal sex with a girl was 18/19.
    First manual same-sex experiences was 11/12.
    Never had anal at all yet...

    So, as you can see, things develop in their own time.
     
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    I haven't had any relationship or anything, so i'm a complete virgin.
    I'm starting to get a slight urge to start a relationship, although my confidence stops me trying.
     
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    Receive: 19 (couldn't quite reciprocate because I was dating a girl)
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    I've realized that in this case, 'tis better to give than receive. I enjoy giving a whole lot
     
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    i haven't done it but i think i would enjoy it, maybe.

    im 23 and i've never even kissed anyone yet so... if you're behind, then i'm way behind...
     
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    I gave my first last year about June. *^.^*
     
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    Well,

    I was 23 when I had my first kiss and any first sexual experience with a partner.

    I was 24 when I had intercourse for the first time.

    You're not behind at all :slight_smile:
     
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    Last year. I was 16 Lol I didn't enjoy it, I like girls
     
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    18 when I got and gave one...
     
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    Both at 16. I was not exactly willing to do the giving, either.

    Coercion isn't sexy. >_>


    (Although I'm not against giving blow jobs to the right person....frankly I know some people say it's a myth to enjoy giving oral, but I really do enjoy it from the viewpoint that I enjoy having the power to get my hubby off like that.)
     
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    It's like they told you as a kid about gifts around the holiday time of the year. Giving is more satisfying than getting!
     
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