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Am I still a virgin

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by cuteforeskin, May 6, 2015.

  1. cuteforeskin

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    I had anal sex with a friend, in which he topped me with his 8.5 inches, which was very enjoyable I am curious to find out if I would now be classified as ( broken in ) or still a virgin.
     
  2. matiasz94

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    I mean a virgin (not that it is anything outside a fabricated social construct) is someone who hasn't had sex; it entails that you haven't been intimate with anyone. Traditionally sharing sexual intimacy was seen as ownership (they own a part of your now, your virginity).
     
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    I believe the "technical" definition of losing one's virginity is penetrative vaginal sex, but what you had is definitely sex so if having had sex makes you not a virgin then I guess you're not a virgin.

    The whole concept of virginity is stupid & outdated, but I've always considered the concept simply to mean "have you had sex?" And that doesn't even account for which kind. Why would oral not count for example? Anyways, I'm just rambling now... :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Well virginity is sort of a social construct so it depends on who you ask (some for example don't consider non-hetero sex to be sex) but I'd say no.
    Not that it matters nor is it anyone's else's business besides your own.
     
  5. Fallingdown7

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    In my opinion, no. I think doing anything below the waist makes one not a virgin.
     
  6. nohalos

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    Er, no, honey. You even went with more detail...
     
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    You have phrased that BEYOND perfectly! :lol:
     
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    I believe you are not a virgin anymore, I classify the loss of ones virginity as any type of intercourse. ^.^
     
  9. OrangeRainbow

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    Virgin isn't even a thing.
     
  10. Yosia

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    Its a matter of opinion.
     
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    For me personally I only count penetrative sex as losing your virginity, since you have had anal sex, I would definitely count that as losing your virginity. So no you are not a virgin anymore, congrats lol... I am still am but I am waiting for the right person. I am glad that you enjoyed it lol!