so I am a 15 year old girl. I've liked guys all my life. I am sexually attracted to men. Ok so here is the dilemma. I was watching eighties movies and I saw this cute actor (he's not really cute I don't know why I get giddy when I see him) so yeah I was a regular fangirl. So A couple weeks ago this girl enters my life. And she kinda looks like this actor used to. Now at the beginning I was like oh yeah let's be friends. I would secretly stare at her and like talk to her as often as I could. Now fast forward and we are good pals. I still think that eighties actor is hot n all. We are on the same sports team so I see her every week. I still think guys are hot. It's hard to explain but I always like feel jumpy around her and energized. She always comes to find me and talk to me. I have never felt this way about a female in my whole life. Two days ago she gave me her Facebook. I noticed she had one of those like date things like 01/01/2001 (for example) so me being the total dumbass I am dug a little deeper. She is dating this girl right. I kept digging. The girls girlfriend said she was bi. I don't know why that is important. I feel all happy around this chick and it's so weird. In a couple of weeks we have this away game and we will be staying over night at some hotel. Some of the team is gonna be there but I feel like it will just be me and her most the time. This makes me excited and I'm not sure why. I feel like she might try to kiss me (I am overthinking everything btw) and like Im not sure how I will react. I read some things where people like ran away but then that would just make it awkward. I finally know what it means to be confused and it's killing me. Nobody In my family is (excuse me) gay and they are more with th guy and girl thing. I am really worried that this won't go away because I think my feelings are getting stronger. Somebody please help, I found this website and made an account just so I could get some reassurance and advice. Thank you
Heyo, I think its time you pulled on some brakes there and slow down. This girl is bi [score for you] but that being said, she also has a girlfriend. I'm not one to judge but its safest not to get between two people because the drama it causes but also the pain. If she's interested in you and willing for a something to happen, make sure she's not dating the other girl at the same time and if she is, that all parties agree [yes, that includes her girlfriend.] Another thing is, don't jump on the train to Outsville just yet, you want to be sure before you start labeling yourself. Take time, you're not in a rush just yet. Just figure yourself out before you get others involved too quickly. Hope things go well.
