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I Think(?) I have my sexuality figured out. (Maybe? Possibly?) ...help. Please.

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by MouseKeeper, Jun 27, 2015.

  1. MouseKeeper

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    So, I have known for a while I am most likely bi in some way. I do like girls, but it's not just that. Something else is up. I'll try and sum it up as briefly as possible.

    Here's how complicated it is:

    So, I have an aesthetic attraction for sure for both sexes that's really strong. So, there's that. I have had romantic feelings for both sexes also. I can definitely say I have sexual desires(not to be confused with curiosity or attraction) involving both sexes. I do have a high libido. I think I may be a masochist... sort of... kind of?(That's a question for another topic) I suppose there's a possibility I'm either a demisexual or a gray-ace, or both, because my attraction is weak, in general, but overwhelming towards my GF. I have very limited interest in porn.

    So, as you can see, I'm all over the place. I have a general overview of my sexuality with maybe some contradicting information somewhere in there, but I cannot really sum it up in one word or phrase. I don't know, it's hard to explain. I know it's just a matter of just having sex, but I'm in a closed monogamous relationship(we are not swingers), so that's not possible. Does anybody have any tips that may help in my situation? Something that may make it easier? Would I benefit from a sex therapist? Any other tips and suggestions? Thanks.

    And just in case, I'm not asking for someone to give me the answer to my hardest question. I'm just asking for someone to point me in the right direction so I can find that answer the right way.