Has anyone not cried when coming to terms

yes, I wish I was in to girls,end of the story

 

Not sad at all. Not even a little. I have always been an Ally... So I think for me its not anything I am ashamed of.

No tears for queers ❤️ Nothing wrong with loving differently.

 

I don't think I cried at all. The only time I cried was once when someone said something that felt like a deliberate attack on my sexuality.

 

Cried a lot. Still do... But now it's more of a crying becaues people don't get it and because I can't seem to find anybody that feels and is the same way as I do.

 

I never cried when I was coming out, I think it's because I'm disabled so I'm already different and so realizing I was gay didn't make me cry so much, I do cry though, I cry about being lonely when my mother attacks me about my sexuality, I tend to be more fustrated at my dad. but coming out never invoked serious crying, it does invoke me going really quiet though instead.

So you are not alone. Here's a hug for you OP (*hug*)

 

I'm not sure if you are saying you wish you were more emotional, you seem a bit evasive on the subject. You might want to see a therapist and explore the issue with some supervision. In the mean time expose yourself to various forms of art and try and allow yourself to be moved by it. Art is designed to evoke emotion.

It's not good to be emotionless or stoic as you put it. It prevents you from getting to know yourself and can make it difficult for you to form meaningful relationships.

 

I cried a fair bit... But not in the shame way, just in the despair way... didn't shed a tear much about sexuality, but gender, ouch...

 

I haven't been able to cry ever since I came out as trans, though it definitely isn't because I don't feel like crying. I think the reason I never cried was that when I finally opened up to people about my gender identity they didn't really react in the best way and ever since I've had a crippling fear of vulnerability.

 

i didn't cry, but i do feel some sort of pressure on my head when i coming to term with myself. Probably because I always knew that I'm different...

 

Ok, so with my sexuality while I was still questioning I'd cry at night when I was with my girlfriend because I knew my parents would not accept me.

 

I did when I was questioning probably 'cause I used to be fun of for being masculine so everyone thought I was gay. Once I actually realized I was bi I was relieved.

 

Nope - never shed a tear about being gay. But then I never felt that being gay was any big deal. That, plus being raised to not really care about what other people think kind of cut down on the whole emotional stress thing. Anyway, sex with dudes felt great, so why would it bother me?

Todd

 

Not me. Concluding I was bi and maybe pan wasn't scary or even particularly emotional. I just found a sense of peace knowing I wasn't a total weirdo, for that reason at least XD.

 

I didn't cry for being gay. At one point I cried because one of my friends didn't accept me, but that's it.

 

I didn't cry. I rarely cry. I have had lots of anxiety about coming out, though. I was just silent. In my life, I have learned that I fare best when I keep my emotions to myself.

 

I can't recall ever really crying. I felt/still feel overwhelmed sometimes, and I probably could cry, I just haven't. Mostly I just feel like I'm being buried alive or something... it's more of an anxiety response than anything else. It's difficult. everyone has a different way of coping. Like MissMonster (see above) I've been a huge ally as long as I can remember, but I still felt weirdly afraid of my sexuality. It's a lot to handle sometimes. I dunno... it's completely different for everyone. But if I were you, I would be relieved not be crying. **Your feelings are still just as valid and strong, no matter how you outwardly express them.**

 

I didn't cry, it was a weird moment through.

 

By the time I figured out I was questioning I had grown so supportive. Now I've come close and may over my best friend last night