I have a bit of a conundrum. I experience both sexual arousal and attraction constantly, and as of late have been given instances to act upon them, but have chosen not to. The reason being that I do not want to have sex with someone I barely know, or care about. I want to lose my virginity to someone I'm in a relationship with. From there we have two additional problems; I haven't found too many people, who are openly gay, and not in relationships, who I am compatible enough with to attempt a relationship, and 2.'m not 100% emotionally, mentally, and financially ready for what a relationship brings, and I don't want to be unfair or hurtful to some potentially awesome guy because I have my own hang ups. So I'm stuck in limbo, though I want to lose it, I want to be in a relationship I don't know if I'm ready for yet. Help me out please because this conundrum has me at a standstill when I really want to move.:bang:
if you really want to wait to lose it to someone you love, wait. don't lose it to a one night stand & possibility get STDs and other diseases. try dating sites and apps to meet guys for a LTR. also make sure you trust him 100%!
