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Trust issues

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by kanfused, Aug 17, 2015.

  1. kanfused

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    I don't know if there's an issue
    But I've been distrustful of men.

    There's a guy ask me to be friends
    We talked and I think he was nice
    But then I got a feeling of awkwardness about something
    they like to use that subtlety
    Often ask me to stay the night
    Or go out during the night
    Doesn't that sound like they wanted more?
    Then recant by saying they meant no harm
    When they ask that.

    After that they stopped talking to me or
    Be gone for some time then talk to me again

    What are they playing?

    I'm not interested in dating. I told them this all the time
    I just want a friend

    It's also hard for me to meet lesbians here
    maybe I should try harder
     
  2. DreamerBoy17

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    While some men are immature and just wanting to have sex with you, way more are likely just wanting to be friends. It's hard to believe, but maybe if you spend more time around male friends, you'll see it yourself. I'm a lesbian! Nice to meet ya!
     
  3. kanfused

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    Nice to meet you too.