Hey guys, I'm wondering if any of you have sexted before? I hadn't, but the other night I did so with a friend. It was a lot of fun, and I enjoyed it. Now I'm wondering: does he think of me as more than a friend? We met a year and a half ago in my EMT class and though we weren't the best of friends in class he's the only person I've stayed in touch with since class ended. We hadn't talked in months until I saw him recently (we were both helping out at an EMT exam) and since then we've texted a few times with that night being an exception - we texted a lot. I saw him a couple days later, briefly, and things were pretty much how they usually are but it was only for about 20 minutes and it was at his work so his EMT partner was with us the whole time. Basically, texting was a lot of fun. I could see myself as doing more with him in real life but at the same time I don't expect it. He happens to be the first person not on here that I told I was pansexual - and it was mostly because he knows none of my family and only a few EMT friends so it felt right to tell him. Not that it's come in conversation at all - and maybe he's forgotten. I'm just wondering what your experiences have been with such things.
Personally I would never do that because I'd be too worried someone could get a hold of those messages somehow. Same goes for nude photos or videotaping. But to each their own.
Yeah...my girlfriend is forced to delete convos (her dad checks her phone often) and I never, ever would send nudes... I feel like a pervert...
Each to their own, but I would never do it. What if I break up with the person and they use it against me? Plus, if you are underage it is more than likely the Feds will pick up on it (they can see all texts) and you'll be charged with Child Porn, which I'm sure is not a fun offense to recover from.
You guys make some good points... I don't know what changed that made me not afraid of it - I used to be more worried about people seeing stuff like that, but I guess I decided not to care. It's still not something I'd do often. We're both 22, and there's been no photographs. It was all based on a scenario that we kind of added to as a story bit by bit.
Hi Hopeful, I've done it before with another female I met online. It was a lot of fun, and I really enjoyed it but it meant more to me that it did to her so I ended up with my feelings hurt. I think the important thing is to talk about expectations and if your both in it for fun, there's not harm in it...or even if you're both in it for something more then great, but if there are different expectations or one person has a different thought on boundaries than the other than someone may get hurt....
I had cybersex. That was odd. Sexting too. I kind of regret it but it was good at the time I guess. It was with my ex girlfriend.
I've done it before...I wouldn't say I regret it. At the time I was in a relationship with the girl and it was long distance so that was our way of kinda keeping things interesting between us