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My kitty died :(

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Spot, Sep 5, 2015.

  1. Spot

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    He went missing on Thursday night, we searched for ages and couldn't find him. Then on Friday morning, we found him. He got hit by a car. I miss him so bad, I don't know what to do. The house feels so empty now. His birthday is next week. I have school tomorrow and I don't know how I'm going to go back. RIP Archie :frowning2:
     
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    I'm so sorry! It's not easy losing a pet.

    This happened to my family when I was really young. One of our cats vanished, and I think my parents assumed she might well have been hit by a car. It was so hugely devastating to me--I was really close to that cat.
     
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    I'm sorry about this. It truly is awful losing a beloved cat. My cat was hit by a car also.
     
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    I'm sorry to hear your sad news. Pets really do become members of the family and it's very hard to lose them.

    How would you feel about getting another cat now? I know you will not be able to replace the friend you have just lost, but having another cat to care for may lessen the pain a little. It's not for everyone, but some people do find it helpful to have that continuity.

    Try to do something special to remember the cat you have just lost. (*hug*)
     
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    I'm only fourteen so I still live with my parents. My mom and I did discuss getting getting cat some time in the future. I would like another cat but she's still on the fence about the idea. She said if we did, it wouldn't be for a while (maybe a month or so)
     
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    My cat just passed away from illness 4 days ago, she was 15 years old. I know how you feel. Just try and remember all the good times you had with your kitty. I'm sure he loved you a lot, he'll always be with you (*hug*)
     
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    Thank you for your kind words everyone (*hug*)
     
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    I give you my condolences on your loss. :icon_sad:
     
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    I'm so sorry :frowning2: Its hard losing a pet, my cat went missing 2 years ago we haven't found her since, she was the same age as me. I bet he loved you a lot ❤ If I could hug you I would ~internet hugs~
     
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    I am sorry. I know how hard it can be to loose a pet. I lost my dog a fews back. (*hug*)
     
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    Thanks for your replies, hopefully it'll get easier in time (*hug*)