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Hey anyone wanna help

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Dragontailwhip8, Sep 18, 2015.

  1. Dragontailwhip8

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    Hi I just made an account to get some help so I can sleep at night. I don't know what it is about sexuality that gets people so flustered. I'll start by saying I don't care for labels but I want to know if what I'm feeling is legitimate. When I was 16 my mom gave me a suposutory I think it's spelled. I was really constipated XD. Right after I was like that didn't hurt. She used a lubed glove. Every guy I knew acted like it'd be just horrible. I had given a girl anal sex before but never thought about how it felt. I completely blocked it in my mind but I'd always finger or stick random stuff up my butt and my mind just wouldn't register what I was doing. I now realize and I think anal is incredibly hot and pleasurable. It blew my mind and whenever I watched porn the part that got me off was the act of being penetrated. Seeing the penis move in and out. I am always blunt with myself but I honestly think guys faces are just normal. I don't really get turned on by their bodies either. I've had a lot of sex with females but never had them try anal on me but I was always into anal on them. I think oral sex is hot and so is anal sex but I've tried gay porn, and fantasizing with other guys but nothing does it. Relationships don't matter to me. I love dick but I also like girls. To a degree. I prefer seeing futanari or a girl being penetrated. I own a dildo now. I don't talk to anyone I'm a loner and I haven't had sex in 3 years except online so I was wondering if I'm trying to force myself to like men cause I'm bored and it's new and exciting? Maybe I'm just into anal itself. But I fantasize about gay sex a lot just not any focus on the male part besides genitalia. What do you think??(!)
     
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  2. mallix

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    I think a lot of guys are into anal, some guys have gfs who use strap ons on them.
    Myabe that's an option for you, or maybe you're bisexual, does the thought of experimenting with a man turn you on?
     
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    Ask yourself: Do you like the idea of being with the same sex? Do you see yourself spending the rest of your life with someone of the same sex? Do you like the idea of having sex with someone of the same sex?

    Asking yourself questions like this can help you determine what you want, and whether you are homosexual/bisexual/heterosexual or whatever.

    However, just having an interest in anal sex does not automatically make you homosexual. Many male-sexed people enjoy anal, whether it be from experimenting with someone of the same sex, or through their partner using a toy on them or whatever.

    In the end, only you can decide who you are. Best of luck! <3
     
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    I'd essentially say the same thing to you OP as this; good luck!
     
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    I don't really think you are gay, I think you really are into anal sex and it's fine. It's actually more common than you could think for straight guys to enjoy anal sex (both giving and receiving), it doesn't make them gay. Gay is more than anal sex, it's about being emotionally attracted and connected to people of the same-sex as well as sexually attracted to them. If you do not find guys sexually attractive nor emotionally attractive (as in you wouldn't date one) you probably aren't gay.

    Fantasies are diverse and aren't indicative of a sexuality. If you do not wish to pursue a relationship with another man or a sexual relationship with one then I think it's pretty safe to say you are probably straight.