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Dating - Over-thinking?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by wildestdreams, Oct 10, 2015.

  1. wildestdreams

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    Hello,

    I had one of my first 'proper' dates for the first time the other day. We have been speaking to each other for about a week before and have continued since. We said that we are going to meet soon once we know dates and that. However, I am finding myself wanting to speak to him all the time and constantly worrying that he is no longer interested, or that I am annoying him and maybe that I should not be messaging him back so quickly/messaging him first in the morning.

    He is the first guy that I have met that I truly fancy both physically and personally, and he is taking his time and is not one to just sleep on the first meet (like most I have met/been with).

    I sometimes have the feelings about being annoying/constantly thinking about what I have written and how it may come across.

    Any advice would be great.
     
  2. Linus

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    Yes, messages can often be misinterpreted. I learned that the hard way myself. :< I recommend contacting more through phone calls, Skype, or if possible, in person. These methods tend to work out better for complete understanding.
     
  3. wildestdreams

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    Yeah I will try and give that a go, but again I don't want to seem to eager and scare him away!