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Is he gay?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Gay1234, Oct 25, 2015.

  1. Gay1234

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    There is a classmate in my class who once I found him wearin a rainbow bracelet. He is alsoinseperstable from another boy. I know they might be just friends but they were recently moved from each other in school and they got really upset and cranky. Would he be gay?



    Another question a classmate told me that he was gay but I don't know if he was only joing to get me to tell him I was gay. I didn't but would he joke that h is gay or would somebody generally not do that? Please uelp
     
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    He's gay.
     
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    It's quite possible that he is gay.
     
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    Don't forget he could also be bi
     
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    Thank more replies would be appreciated tho
     
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    It's highly probable that he's not straight if he's wearing a rainbow bracelet, but you can't read too much into him being "close" with another boy. Nobody can tell you conclusively based on what you wrote in the original post, but I think it's a pretty good bet that he is gay or bi. It seems like it would probably be worthwhile getting to know him and finding out for yourself though.
     
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    Hi there! As mbanema mentioned in his post, nobody can tell you or give you a definitive answer. The only person who can tell you whether or not your classmate is gay, is the classmate himself.

    If you are not out to the classmate, your first step would be to come out to the classmate, and see how he reacts, an what he says in response. You can also try to get to know him better first, by trying to spend more time with him. :slight_smile:
     
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    When you see him in class watch if his eyes go to guys or girls more. That sometimes can give away sexual attraction.
     
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    Whether he is or not it shouldn't matter

    If you are his friend carry on that way, speak to him if you feel comfortable or just be there for him.

    Jamie
    xx
     
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    Thanx guys
     
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    I also have a major crush on him. I cant stop getting erections when i look at him or see him take his top off when hes changing for pe! He has an amazing chest
     
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    It's quite possible he could be gay if he was wearing a rainbow bracelet, but remember that the rainbow represents the full LGBTQA+ community, and he could be somewhere else on the spectrum.
     
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    OH NO!

    Back in high school, I wore a rainbow bracelet because I thought it looked unique! I didn't even know at the time that it was a symbol to depict that a person is gay, which people here seem to think!

    Oh my god, I hope I didn't give any of my classmates a very wrong impression! :frowning2: