I was talking to my friend today and we were talking about coming out stories, he then asked me when I'd come out to my parents. I said if I got a girlfriend then I would. Saying that made me feel really weird and I don't why, it feels weird thinking that I'd get a girlfriend and I don't know why. Is this just me coming to terms with being bi? Did anyone else feel like this?
For a while it felt really surreal. Like... 'wow. This is actually real. I'm actually going to have a girlfriend some day.' And for a while this would lead me back into some slight denial, but soon enough that all faded and now it's just... normal. So yeah, I think it's very normal. And now I'm going through the exact same thing with my gender. Fun XD
For me, there was a time when the idea of being with or touching another man terrified me to such a degree. Once it eventually happened, my fears were lessened as I realized there is nothing to be afraid of, except being hurt by the person.
No experience having a gf, however, as with bf or gf thinking about it may not be completely right till you meet that someone and actually would want to be with them all the time.
