Now, I'm pretty new to all of this. At least the acceptance and learning part. So Please indulge me. What is with the catalogues for us? Femme, butch, whatever the other catalogues are Why do we do this? Now, I'm lesbian. Isnt that enough? Do I have to identify as femme (lol never gonna happen), butch, whatever? Are there people who will only date people in a certain category? Only femme, only butch, only...whatever? Why does it matter? Would love a discussion on this, background etc.
