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i have a tiny crush on my best friend but in a relationship

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  1. Ihavetojustbeme

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    what do i do? i love my girlfriend and all but its kind of up in the air (read other posts to know more) and even before i met her ive had a tiny crush on my best friend but she's straight. should i let it go? i dont want it to get in the way of my relationship because its hard enough as it is. It's long distance and i love her i would do anything for her. what should i do with this tiny crush? i just want to push it away. :help::icon_redf
     
    #1 Ihavetojustbeme, Nov 12, 2015
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    i know the crush shouldnt be there, but the fact that i never get to see my girlfriend isnt helping. mind you this crush is very tiny, very very tiny.
     
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    i need advice asap please
     
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    Well, in my opinion, I think both situations will go nowhere. I know your current situation with your LDR. If your best friend is straight, then that obviously won't work. Do you know 100% that your best friend is straight?
     
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    im not really sure. she sais she is but she seems curious
     
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    Maybe tell her how you feel. Do you think she will be accepting?
     
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    she already knows im gay
     
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    Seems to me you need to do 2 things firstly you need to sit your girlfriend down and speak to her is there a reason you never get to see her? If you don't get to see her then maybe you need to ask how can you strengthen your relationship or is it time to break up. Sorry to be blunt

    Secondly has your friend said she's straight? Has she had boyfriends? how do you know she's curious any signs? Maybe you should tell her you have feelings for her she seems accepting anyway so what's the harm in telling her.
     
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    she is in canada im in chicago its a LDR :tantrum: but idk whatever i guess. i love her no matter what. :kiss:(*hug*):icon_redf im think my friend is straight although she has never had a BF.
     
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