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"Straight" guys checking me out

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by mlansing, Dec 3, 2015.

  1. mlansing

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    I feel like there have been a lot of times where I have caught straight guys checking me out. Does this mean they are interested or just sizing me up? And how do you find out?
     
  2. CL1990

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    Have exactly the same feeling with straight girls....but with girls is worse because it probably is just that they find me good looking and since i look at them aswell i start to think in my head thet there is something "more" even though it doesnt develop from there into anything else unfortunately
     
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    It could be a lot of different things. Straight guys will notice if another guy's in shape, for example. They could be "sizing you up" or they might genuinely be "into you." If they know you're gay, you could be attracting curious / questioning guys.
     
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    Makes sense, it's just the finding out if they are into me part that's difficult :/
     
  5. JedenPolska

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    For sure. I'm having the same issues, if you want to see my post.
     
    #5 JedenPolska, Dec 3, 2015
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