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At What Point?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by jj71981, Dec 5, 2015.

  1. jj71981

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    I've only been out of the closet for around a month now and I'm dipping my toe in the dating pool. Not taking it serious. I don't know what my type is, so I'm going based on what I like in a guy's profile or if I find them attractive in their pictures.

    Anyway, I think things are going pretty well with a guy that I am now talking with and we are planning on meeting up next week.

    At what point would it be appropriate to tell him that I'm newly out (not hiding to anyone) and have yet to be with a man?
     
  2. Secrets5

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    Maybe just say "Listen, this is my first time, any tips, anything you like?"

    Or something.
     
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    Just let it come up in conversation. I don't think you need to make it a huge deal. When I was on there, I put it in my profile that I was newly out, but you don't have to do that. Honestly man don't worry about it
     
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    Yeah, ultimately, if they are worth it...they'll be understanding.