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I'm in a dilemma.

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Gay1234, Dec 16, 2015.

  1. Gay1234

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    It's embarassing but Well here I go. I as in my school bathroom and my schools mirrors have full view of the urinals and I went to look at the mirror cos I was checking my braces and I accidently saw a boys penis while he was going to the toilet. He was a bit out from the urinal and he was using his phone so id say that's why he didn't notice his penis was showing. He didn't see me looking but now I'm so embarassed be caused it actually turned me on and I couldn't stop staring. I know for sure h didn't notice I was looking but I'm worried I'm a pervert now. Please help me.
     
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    Hi Gay1234.

    Calm down, you are not a pervert if it was accidental.

    If you suddenly feel the need to check your braces every time you use the restroom, for five minutes each time, then you will be a pervert.
     
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    Thank You so much for your post. It made me feel way better.

    Thanks Again,
    Gay1234
     
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    Hello Gay1234,
    I have read about your situation. I just want to let you know that there are some weird moment in our life (like your!). Everything is OK! Do not worry, you are not a pervert. We are all curious creatures after all :slight_smile:!
     
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    Try to relax, it's not as though you went in there to deliberately check him out.

    When I was at school we had to shower or bathe after playing sport and you saw absolutely everything, whether you wanted to or not. It's a bit difficult to not notice when you're in a shower with 15 other guys who are bollock naked. Nobody was deliberately looking, but you caught more than a glance through the mirror.
     
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    Thanx guys. Ye made me feel much better.
     
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    Is it just me but why do people seem to think there is a problem if one sees a penis? Maybe this is just a cultural thing but in my country public swimming pools have (sex segregated) saunas and showers where by the state regulation one has to be naked. (Pool area is mixed gender and you have to wear swimming apparel there, though.) Literally every person who has been to the public school system here has had to go to a public pool as part of physical education and consequently has seen hundreds of people of their own sex and of all ages completely naked. And I'm pretty sure every guy has checked the penises of their fellow compatriots in the sauna just to see how their own "measures up". So to me worrying about accidentally seeing someone's penis on the urinal is utterly incomprehensible. So if you are perv, then by that standard my entire country is perverted.
     
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