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ugh the highs and lows of a crush

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by rangersgal, Dec 21, 2015.

  1. rangersgal

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    Don't you just love the buzz of your crush and thinking everything is going good, will fall into place then reality sets in and you don't even know if they are interested in you and even worse gay!

    :bang::bang::bang::bang:
     
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    Yeah the "buzz can be quite lovely. Sometimes gathering courage and asking / talking can be hard though :grin:
     
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    What makes you think you might not be gay?
     
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    I ques she meant the other person. Like, you can't know if the other person is gay or not.
     
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    Oh I get you yes, haha
     
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    haha, yeah thats the tricky part working out if she's gay! i think she is but never can be totally sure :frowning2:
     
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    Yeah, the buzz, the high is great!
    But when your crush shows clear signs that they *might* be gay, yet deny it totally, it can be pretty confusing. 0_0
     
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    I experience highs and lows with crushes within minutes lol. That's because i continually doubt myself.

    I'll crush on a guy for his mannerisms, good lucks, way he talks, way he walks, literally anything!

    And then I'll second guess myself, compare myself to him and then shrug it off saying that it'll never happen.

    All of this within 5 minutes. :roflmao: It's a fun game for me if you think about it. But then i sit back and analyze it, I realize how bat-shit crazy I am. :wink:
     
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    Crushes are awesome and horrible all at once, haha. I have a huge crush on a girl and I feel so tormented by it (not by her! Any of the torment is from myself, not from her). I think about her constantly, and it's always tough when I'm not sure she thinks about me, blah blah blah. It's such a head game!
     
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    exactly this lol, i can't even meet other people because its her that i want and can only think about! I've turned away many girls as i can't help how i feel! meh.. thats life lol:bang:
     
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    I feel you girl! It's even worse when you befriend your crush, eventually grow closer to become her best friend, but only to see her flirt and fall in love with someone else because you weren't brave enough to tell her your feelings.
     
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    ugh, soooo been there. I feel you 110%. Just try not to let it drag on for years like I did :/
     
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    its been dragging on for a few years now - it has actually stopped me from meeting other girls as i can't stop thinking about her :frowning2:. we are getting together in the new year so will see how we get on then and hopefully she tells me she's gay. if not I'm not brave enough to let her know i like her so i will just have to move on....eek
     
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    I totally feel ya. I have a bit of a crush on this girl, but she's straight I'm pretty sure. Though you never know :icon_wink
     
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    you never know indeed! i don't think this girl is straight but no doubt she is haha! she has given me signs - but i froze sorta! and she's keen to get another night out with me.. heres hoping!

    My Gaydar sucks.. how long have you been crushing on her?
    Hope everything works out :slight_smile: and that infact she is gay!
     
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    Omg my crush on my straight friend was horrible
     
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    I know, right? The giggly feeling you get is the best part, even if we know it won't happen. I guess that's why they're just crushes.