any advice would be most welcome! 80% of the time i talk to this girl i go red! its stopping me talking to her, as i hurry away:bang: its only her i go red around and I'm sure she notices this! Hopefully she finds it sweet lol!
we were out for a christmas party and she was touchy around me, i don't hide I'm gay but don't publicise it either. Since the party we have became more friendly with her saying we should do it again, and today saying we will get a night out after christmas, i don't know what she does as I'm too busy walking away hahaha! but when i see her later she always smiles at me..
The reason your going red, blushing might be the lack of seld confidence. Self confidence might be hard to work on but there are certain things that can help it. One of the best being just simply learning new things. Whether it be. Photography, baking, art. Anything goes. Martial arts. Whatever rocks your boat or you have wanted to learn. Or perhaps suprise yourself with something compleaditly different. The feeling of accomplishment immeaditly boosts ones self confidence /confidence. Hope that was for any help ---------- Post added 22nd Dec 2015 at 11:08 PM ---------- That sounds like your doing really well (!) It seems that she likes you
yeah you could say i lack self confidence, especially when it comes to my love life! guess being single for ages doesn't help! thank you for your help will most certainly take this on board and do something to work on it! great suggestions
I wouldn't worry if she likes you, im sure she thinks its cute and if she doesn't then it obviously doesn't bother her so just try and work through it and im sure you will get there.
If you're in that situation, one thing you can try is to slow your breathing. Or rather, like... control your composure, so to say. If you find yourself talking quickly or sporadically, try changing how you talk to talking slower and in coherent sentences rather than just strings of words. Try to be a little more in control of the situation. I don't think she makes as big a deal of your face being red as you do - you're probably fine.
thanks Invidia, Sometimes i go red other times i don't! its weird! and I can have a full on conversation without going red around her! I don't get it lol! Once my work colleague asked me why i went so red and later on i told her, she said she knew thats why she didn't pursue the answer!
