I have a really big crush on this girl from my class. I am not out nor is she interested in Women. Now that I slept at her house after a party and we had fun together I dont want to let that fade away since we wont see each other for 3weeks now. But we have never texted before and I know texting isnt actually that hard but I am so afraid of making a mistake nor do I know how to randomly start a conversation. So, does anyone have an idea? (Btw I have known her for 1 1/2 years now and am interested in her for about 1 month)
Sweet Jesus, I've been there, and fairly recently too. In this case, I think you just need to go for it Even if your first message is just "Hey, how're you doing?", you've opened a dialogue but don't do this if it's going to upset you, that doesn't help anyone. I wish you the best, and I hope everything works out okay
How about texting here and thanking for the party/chance to stay at her place and at the same time as how she is doing. If she responds then you have a conversation ta-DA!
Something simple like,"How are you doing?". Don't ask something like "What's up?" It can put some people off. And try and graduate towards topics that are of interest to both of you, it works (at least that's how I befriended my crush!). Keep it light-hearted, nothing serious. All the best! (&&&)
Thank you all! But niw that I texted her, I don't know how to keep the conversation running.... We texted a bit about christmas stuff, what we give to other people, but now it's kinda dead. Any ideas?
What is she doing for New Years? Does she have any plans yet? Any New Years resolutions she's made? Does she work or go to school..if so how has that been going? what has she been doing lately? Etc
