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Need Advice Badly

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by JebtheSheep, Dec 26, 2015.

  1. JebtheSheep

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    Guys I really need to help and advice on something. I have a huge crush on my best friend and we have been best friends for 7 years. He knows I am gay and he's fine with it, but I think hes straight. I really just need some good advice on what I should do, I've been getting a lot of "welp, hes straight. Its a lost cause" but it doesnt seem like a good answer, I know that sounds selfish but I just really need to hear something different. :tears::bang:
     
  2. Distant Echo

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    Unfortunately it doesn't work that way. Inconvenient straight people.
    You need to find a way to distract yourself. and I need to follow my own advice
     
  3. Euler

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    Dude, he cannot become gay no more than you can become straight. Get over it.

    If you are distracted by him you could take a little distance to him and find something else to do to distract yourself.
     
  4. mobrien1993

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    I wouldn't chance it you could make things really awkward between you guys or even lose a friendship..you should try to find someone or something to focus on rather than crushing on him